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Lavender Marriages Resource

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a lavender marriage?

A lavender marriage is a marriage of convenience between two people, typically where one or both partners are LGBTQ+, entered to conceal sexual orientation or gender identity. Learn more β†’

Is a lavender marriage legal?

Yes, lavender marriages are legal marriages. However, marriage fraud for immigration purposes is illegal. See legal implications β†’

How do I find a partner?

Partners can be found through LGBTQ+ communities, online forums, personal networks, and cultural organizations. Finding a partner guide β†’

Do I need a prenup?

Yes, prenuptial agreements are strongly recommended for all lavender marriages. Financial considerations β†’

Can I have romantic relationships outside the marriage?

This depends on your specific agreement with your partner. Many lavender marriages allow outside relationships. Types of arrangements β†’